SHOULD A WIFE LEAVE HER HUSBAND WHO HAVE AN AFFAIR?

The second wife of a friend consulted me…she was angry with her husband for she suspect that her husband have reconciled with his first wife. She was planning to cut-off their more than two years of relationship.

I told her not to be so hasty. I told her about the command of God that she should love her husband and that true love never ends and that such a love is not jealous and that if her love was true she would not seek her own benefit but that of her husband. That she would suffer long-have patience…that she should not pray that the relationship of her husband and his first wife should go for the worse that it would improve!

WHHAAAAT? Are your crazy?

But that is what the scriptures 1 Corinthian 13 tells us about love:

verse 8 Love never fails…

Verse 4 LOve…is not jealous…

Verse 5 Seeks not its own…

Verse 4 Suffers long…

Verse 5 Thinks no evil…

And she told me..the two of us loving him…that is unfair! I will seek for a way to end our relationship, she said.I told her Jesus “hang (on the cross) for love because it had to be done!”

I told her, it is up to you…but from the scriptures you know what true love is..just pray that what you do would not yield a bitter fruit…which you will regret in the end.

I did not anymore endeavor to show her -her situation- the truth was her husband was her second husband. She also had left her first husband when she caught him having an affair with another woman; and now she was again planning of leaving her second husband…and she was 46 years old…I said to her that she should follow the example of the holy women of old like Esther, Ruth who despite the fact that the man who love d them have already wives they still opted to marry those married men. She told me “THAT WAS A VERY LONG TIME AGO!” I told her, well between what is revealed in the Word of God and those taught to you by modern pastors & priests, if you chose to follow the modern teaching-that is your choice. Just hope, I said, that the fruit of your decision would be good! If you leave him and find another one then you will have three husband, I said.

She is one of the woman whose mind have been deceived by the spell of Jezebel and the BIG BIG LIE OF SHOULD BE MONOGAMY FOR ALL MEN! Well if you think she is quite enlightened i leave both of you alone,( or anyone else for that matter who won’t believe) as i have been instructed.